Hi Still Totally ADD
Took me time to realise they were mysoginists (if it's wrong I spelt it phonetically using a soft 'g'). But I suspect now that one of the power elders was seeking to encourage me to clean the toilet when he said:
"Oh I love cleaning toilets, I get such pleasure putting my arm right in, deep down and going up the bend and round the bowl." I just stood there looking at him. I took it at face value, that he really did enjoy doing that. I left puzzled.